Ten Tips For Parents
Welcome
Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.
-Deuteronomy 6:5-9
Discipling a child is a ministry of the heart. It addresses the heart of a child and directs their affections to God. But every parent knows - they cannot change the heart of their child.
God, in his wisdom, has designed the family unit as the best environment for a child to be born into. To be nurtured and to grow. And it’s within this relationship, between parent and child, that God speaks these words in Deuteronomy.
This a call to action. Parents to be proactive. They are to impress, talk, tie, bind, write - to be intentional about the daily discipling of their child.
Every parent is to make God visible within the family home. ‘Tie them as symbols… write them on the doorframes…’ God’s presence is not to be a once-a-week Sunday experience but a 24/7 experience in the life of a child. God-talk is to be part of the ‘waking up, lying down, sitting, walking’ aspect of daily family life.
But what does this look like? Ten Tips aims to equip parents in their God-given, privileged role of speaking the truth of the gospel into the life of their child. Ten Tips is not meant to be prescriptive, rather descriptive. It allows parents to choose what’s helpful for them and their family as they seek to bring their children up in the fear and love of the Lord, entrusting the changing of their child’s heart into the sovereign control of their gracious God.
by Sandy Galea
Ten Tips
- On Reading The Bible With Your Childby Sandy Galea
- On Teaching Your Child To Prayby Sandy Galea
- On Helping Kids Meditate And Memorise Scriptureby Sandy Galea
- On Shaping Your Child’s Attitude To Churchby Sandy Galea
- On Addressing Kids Fears And Doubtsby Sandy Galea
- On Talking To Your Children About Sexby Sandy Galea
- On Celebrating Christmas With Your Childby Sandy Galea
- On Developing A Generous Heart In Kidsby Sandy Galea
- On Developing A Heart For The Lost In Kidsby Sandy Galea
- On Encouraging Inner Beauty In Girlsby Sandy Galea
- On Helping Kids Welcome Kidsby Sandy Galea
Recommended Resources
Ages 1-2
- The Beginners Bible
- God Knows All About Me, Claire Page
- God Made Me This Way, Hayley Down, Claire Fennell
- A Time For Everything, Susie Poole
- Always Near Me, Susie Poole
- Whatever Is Lovely, Susie Poole
- Near: Psalm 139, Sally Lloyd-Jones
Ages 3-6
- The Beginners Bible
- The Beginner’s Gospel Story Bible, Jared Kennedy
- The Christmas Promise, Alison Mitchell
- The Storm That Stopped, Alison Mitchell
- The One O’Clock Miracle, Alison Mitchell
- Jesus And The Lions’ Den, Alison Mitchell
- The Garden, The Curtain And The Cross, Carl Laferton
- Noah’s Ark, Bethan Lycett
- The Lost Sheep, Bethan Lycett
- The Pearl Of Great Price, Bethan Lycett
- God’s Very Good Idea, Trilla Newbell
- God Made All Of Me, Justin & Lindsey Holcomb
- My First Story Of Jesus, Tim Dowely
- Everyone A Child Should Know, C Heath-Whyte
- Everything A Child Should Know, C Heath-Whyte
Ages 7-11
- Thoughts To Make Your Heart Sing, Sally Lloyd-Jones
- The Jesus Story Book Bible, Sally Lloyd-Jones
- The Action Bible, Sergio Cariello
- International Children’s Bible
- The Big Picture Story Bible, David Helm
- Birds And The Bees By The Book, Patricia Weerakoon
- The Ology, M Machowski
- The Gospel Story Bible, M Machowski
- This Is The Gospel, Raechel Myers, Amanda Bible Williams
- Everyone A Child Should Know, C Heath-Whyte
- Everything A Child Should Know, C Heath-Whyte
